SOMETIMES YOU JUST HAVE TO THROW ON A CROWN AND REMIND THEM WHO THEY’RE DEALING WITH.
The crown thing…. ok, it’s cute but in reality there is a powerful meaning behind those words. We as black women love labeling ourself as “QUEENS” but often we aren’t acting like queens. I can’t stress enough how important it is for women to have a healthy high self esteem. It’s easy to develop just by changing the way we think of ourself. It’s a learning process. Replace negative thoughts with positive ones. This will naturally improve your life.
- You’ll be happier
- You’ll know and understand your self worth which means you WILL NOT ALLOW yourself to be used/walked on/abused/mistreated…however you want to say it.
- You’ll feel healthier (Stress KILLS)
- You’ll walk with more confidence
- You’ll have great social interactions
- You’ll feel more successful in life whether you’re making a lot of money or NOT.
But the most important one…. You’ll have a PEACE OF MIND! No anxiety just calmness.
Sooooo, It doesn’t bother me to walk around with “nappy” hair or to have a body that’s straight up & down (no curves) or to struggle with dyslexia. Dyslexia just means my brain processes written language differently from others without dyslexia. I’ve found ways around that and I haven’t let it stop me from waking up and being pretty awesome (LOL) …..but again, it has been a learning process.
Now, with that being said.. whenever you’re feeling down about whatever put on some lace and let go of those negative thoughts. Why lace? Lace is a lady like fabric, LOL. It feels good on, it has an elegance about it, it has the ablility to slim silhouettes…It just makes you happy!!
Ok…soooo your homework for today and forever is to do away with the negativity that’s holding you back from being AWESOME! That includes negative destructive deceitful toxic people, hostile work environments and vicious negative thoughts!!
Our greatest battles are that with our own minds – Jameson Frank