Summer love

In my own little way, I’ve made it my personal mission to uplift women. Somewhere along the way too many of us don’t understand what it means to have high self esteem & self worth.


Love is in the air, it’s in my hair, it’s what I wear. Summer to me means happy times and good sunshine!

My summer list includes:

  • Hot body (check… I work with what I have..NO FAKE BODY PARTS HERE!)
  • Long hair (check.. grown from the scalp. NO fine limp over process lye relaxer here)
  • Tanned skin (check..born that way)
  • Great husband (check.. there’s NO ONE better)

Unfortunately, I’ve been seeing in my social media news feeds too many women are unhappy due to relationship issues. I never want to see anyone trapped in a bad relationship. There are a lot of delusional females out there who may be willing to turn a blind eye to their BF/GF/Spouses deceitful disrespectful cheating ways and if that’s what make them happy I’m happy they’re ok with being a fool BUT for the ones who aren’t cool with it I want you to NEVER discredit your gut instinct. You’re NOT paranoid. Your body can and will pick up on bad vibrations. IF something deep inside of you says something isn’t right about a person or situation, TRUST IT because confronting the other person is pointless because they will lie through their teeth and never apologize for it.


The worst thing you could do is to allow someone to get comfortable with treating you badly.


If they want to run behind those blood sucking annoying mosquitoes that are easy to smash let them! because real women are suppose to be beautiful and hard to catch like butterflies.


Sooooooo on that note,  remember this: Try to forget what hurt you in the past,but NEVER forget what it taught you.

I think we’ve all heard the phrase “Everybody isn’t your friend” and that’s so true. I know I can relate to that! People pretend well but at the end of the day, real situations expose fake people….just pay attention. Let it go because TIME & KARMA is far more powerful than any of us.


NOW, In closing… IF you haven’t already, go into your closet and have fun. Play around with your personal style! Get a new look going on with your hair. When you look good you feel good and being happy never goes out of style.

My son says to me, “Why do you have green shoes on? .. nothing else is green.”  My response, “Because I like my green shoes, they feel good.”


So there you have it… Do what makes you feel good and drop everything that doesn’t!!!  hahaha


  • Shoes/Purse are from a vintage boutique
  • Tank is from WallyWorld (Walmart)
  • Pants are from Kohl’s

Oh, because I’ve had a lot of people ask me about my combined locs and what goes into doing it I plan on doing more videos (vlogging) in regards to my hair and the new journey we’ve started.

Love XoLB

  • August 24, 2015 - 1:32 am

    Brooke Holmes - Awesome read and photo set! Thank you for sharing your insight and fashion. 🙂ReplyCancel

  • November 29, 2015 - 2:45 am

    Jheri Christopher - Great photo shot and excellent post.ReplyCancel